Alot of guys like to say it, but is it true? When a man says that , or is asked about what he likes about a woman, it is usually , first, the physical. Blonde, brunette, redhead. Large bust, great butt. Killer legs, long fingers..etc. The list can go on and on. The way she looks. How she looks on your arm. Is everyone looking at her? Does her appearance make you proud? All of it is the vanity of us.

I can say honestly, I love women. The hair, the face, the smile, all of it. But, I learned a long time ago, there is more. When I use to live in the mountains of Colorado, there were no women in swimsuits, size 0-1/2. No perfect hair, no perfect nails. No one was airbrushed beautiful. What I saw, and experienced made me realize that women, are women. They are not some perfect looking swimsuit model from the pages of SI. They are women..or as I like to say "real women".

They don't wear makeup all the time. They don't have perfect nails , or hair always. They have bad hair days. Days of wanting to run us over with own trucks. Days where they want your attention only. Days where the kids are more important than you. And days, when they wonder what the hell did I marry him for ? And when did all of these kids take over my home? The true women face all of that , work , and so much more. You don't need Phil or Oprah to tell you about it. Just stop and take a look at the woman you have and hold her for a second. Treat her to a surprise.. do the dishes. Cut the grass. Take the kids off her hand for a bit. It sounds like sappy BS, but it is true. I love women. I love "real women".

A true sexy woman has curves, love handles , all of it . Why is she so sexy? Because those handles, stretch marks are the show of her love, when your kids were born. If your lady is large in size, dont run her down, dont tell her to lose weight. Look at her and know, all of her , is for all of you . If you want to call her BBW , fine. To me, she is BS ( beautifully sculptured ) . The idea of perfection is not a size 0-1/2. The idea of the perfect woman is this....Smart, funny, a great mom, a great friend, a partner for life, there for the ups and downs. A perfect woman cries, has anger, has fear, loves to be comforted, and loves to comfort. She is on your side, she is your heart and soul. When she hurts, you hurt. When she needs space, let her have it. She has to put up with alot from everyone. Love a woman for who she is. Not what she looks like. Although, if she looks great in blue jeans, a towel, naked in the shower, and feels fantastic , when you make love to her.... let her know it.

As for us guys, we don't need to be babys. Some men want the woman to pay attention, give words of comfort and so on. If you need that , then you are not a man. You are a boy reaching for something. A man, should be proud of himself and knows that he does not need to be treated like a baby. Mom did that stuff to you when you were young, it is time to grow up and move on. Be there for your lady, love her. Respect her. All you need as a man, is to see her and know that in your heart, your life is just like you want it. If you do not have that feeling, do not waste her time , or yours. Do not hit, beat, or yell at her. Just walk away and go do what you need to do for you. You have to love yourself , before you can let someone love you. So keep that in mind.

Can women drive you crazy? yes. But we do the same to them as well. So, do not waste time arguing. Just talk, do your best to work things out. Because in the end, no matter what happens, or is said fellas... we love women....